M'malingaliro achikhalidwe cha anthu: amuna ali ndi chikhumbo champhamvu chogonjetsa akazi. Amuna amakhala okangalika kuposa akazi muubwenzi wawo. Nthawi zambiri amakhala ndi zosowa zochepa zamalingaliro. Adzakhala otengeka ndi akazi okongola mmodzi ndi mmodzi ndikulota akugonana nawo. Koma kodi amuna otere?
M'mafunso a Bowie Tsang, tinawawona amunawa. Anasiya akazi ndikusankha zidole zachikulire zogonana chifukwa anavulala m'maganizo.
Angakonde kukhala ndi chidole chachikulire chomwe chili chabwino koma chosasunthika, angakonde kuwononga ndalama zambiri kuti akweze chidole chawo chachikulu chogonana, angakonde kukhala m'malo awo ongopeka, sangakhalenso pafupi ndi akazi.
Kaŵirikaŵiri, tidzaona ubwino wakuthupi wa mwamuna. Akhoza kukhala ndi mkwiyo woipa umene ukhoza kuvulaza thupi la mkaziyo, koma timayiwala kuti sachitiridwa mwachifundo. Amaopanso kuwukira kwa amayi.
Kupyolera mu "Mawa Asanafike", tikudziwa kuti zidole zachikulire zogonana zikhoza kukwezedwa ndipo zikhoza kukhazikitsidwa kwa anthu omwe mumawakonda, koma kukhala ndi chidole chogonana chomwe mungathe kukhazikitsa umunthu wanu kungakhutiritsedi kukhudzika kwamaganizo aumunthu?
Mwamuna wina: “Banja langa linatha zaka 15, ndipo pomalizira pake linatha, ndinali wopsinjika maganizo kwambiri panthaŵiyo, sindinkafuna kukamba za maubwenzi ndi akazi enieni.
Anthu angaganize kuti chinthu chamtundu uwu ndi chodabwitsa, ndipo ndikumvetsetsa. Koma sadziwa kwenikweni kuti zimakhala bwanji kugwiritsa ntchito zidole zachigololozi. Ndi zidole zogonana, mudzapeza zomwe mukufuna. Izi zidzakupangitsani kukhala ndi chidwi kwambiri.
Ndilibe zongoganizira za zidole za anthu akuluakulu. Ndikafuna kukhala ndi zidole zogonana, ndimangoyika mpando umenewo pakona, kukhala pampando ndikumwa mowa, kuwayang'ana, ndiyeno ndimadziwa yemwe amandikopa kwambiri.
Nthawi yotumiza: Nov-30-2023
