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Umfundi othile waseFlorida, ekubonakala ukuba ungcungcuthekiswe ngamava athile obuqu, ubhala ekhalaza esithi, “Ukuba ndibile into ethengiswayo yenickel, ndilisela yaye ndohlwaywa; kodwa ukuba ndiluba uthando lomfazi womnye, ndikhululekile.” Le yingcamango ephosakeleyo exhaphakileyo ezingqondweni zabantu abaninzi yokuba uthando, njengokurhweba, lunokuba “yinto ebiweyo”. Amazwe amaninzi, eneneni, amisele imithetho evumela umonakalo ¡°ukwahlulwa kothando¡±.Kodwa uthando aluyonto yorhwebo; eyona nto iyinyani ayinakuthengwa, ithengiswe, ayinako ukuthengiswa okanye ibiwe. Kukwenza ukuthanda, ukuguquka kweemvakalelo, ukutshintsha kweemvakalelo zobuntu. “Isihange sothando” sasithatha kuphela into eyayilindele ukuthatyathwa, into eyayifuna ukuthatyathwa. Sithanda ukuphatha abantu njengempahla. Side sithethe ngabantwana “bangaba” abazali babo. Kodwa akukho mntu “ongowomnye” omnye. Umntu ngamnye ngowakhe, kwanoThixo. Abantwana baphathiswe abazali babo, yaye ukuba abazali babo ababaphathi kakuhle, urhulumente unelungelo lokubasusa kubuphathiswa babazali babo. Uninzi lwethu, lusebancinane, lwaba namava okuba isithandwa sithatyathwe kuthi ngumntu onomtsalane ngakumbi nonomtsalane ngakumbi. Ngelo xesha, kusenokwenzeka ukuba sasimcaphukela lo mngeneleli kodwa njengoko sasikhula, sabona ukuba isithandwa asizange sibe sesethu kwasekuqaleni. Kwakungeyena u-intruder owabangela ikhefu, kodwa ukungabikho kobudlelwane bokwenene.Ebusweni, imitshato emininzi ibonakala ichitha ngenxa "yeqela lesithathu". Oku, nangona kunjalo, yinkohliso yengqondo. Elinye ibhinqa okanye enye indoda iba sisingxengxezo sokuqhawula umtshato obusele uphulukene nengqibelelo yawo ebalulekileyo.Ayikho into elilize neyoyisayo ngaphezu kobukrakra bothando olucekisekayo, imvakalelo yokuziphindezela yokuba omnye umntu uye “wangena phakathi” kwakhe nomntu omthandayo. Oku kuhlala kukugqwethwa kokwenyani, kuba abantu abangobathinjwa okanye amaxhoba abanye bangabantu abakhululekileyo, besebenzela ikamva labo ngokulungileyo okanye ngokugula. Kodwa umthandi okanye iqabane elaliwe alinakukwazi ukukholelwa ukuba intanda yakhe ijikile kuye ngokukhululekileyo kwaye ke uxela izinto ezimbi okanye imilingo kumntu odibana naye. Umbiza ngokuba yi-hypnotist okanye isela okanye umaphuli-mthetho. Noko ke, kuninzi lwamatyala, xa ikhaya liqhekeziwe, ukuqhekezwa kuye kwaqalisa kwakudala ngaphambi kokuba kuvele “iqela lesithathu” kwindawo.